Barbara R. Mehar

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Barbara Regine Mehar, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, friend, and cherished member of the Cornwall community, passed away suddenly on October 20, 2026, at the age of 78. Known for her radiant smile, infectious laughter, generous heart, and unmistakable style, Barbara had an extraordinary gift for bringing people together and making everyone feel welcome and at home.

Born in Hamburg, Germany, Barbara spent much of her childhood with her beloved grandparents. Independent and adventurous, she began her career in advertising before traveling throughout North America. In 1979, in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, she met the love of her life, Dr. Gurinder “Juggie” Mehar. They built their life in New York, raising their three children first in Flushing, Queens, and later in Cornwall. Alongside building a home and family, Barbara served as the right hand to Walter Linde, president of Lotepro Corporation, and became a beloved community leader known for her generosity and tireless devotion to others.

Barbara loved cooking, singing, dancing, reading, traveling, gardening, entertaining, and caring for animals. Her annual Christmas parties, beautiful voice, thoughtful meals, and signature red lipstick were unforgettable. A loyal friend and a second mother to many, she offered kindness and help without expectation of anything in return.

Deeply devoted to her community, Barbara served as President of the Auxiliary Board of St. Luke’s-Cornwall Hospital, worked as a buyer for the hospital’s thrift stores and gift shop, and helped organize its galas. She supported her husband’s medical practice and, for the final 22 years of her life, cared devotedly for Juggie as he lived with Parkinson’s disease. Her beloved dog Arthur remained her faithful companion.

Above all, Barbara treasured her family. Her greatest joy was seeing those she loved together, laughing and celebrating life. Her warmth, generosity, and boundless love will live on in all who knew her.

Barbara is survived by her husband, Dr. Gurinder “Juggie” Mehar; her son, Jaspal Phil Mehar; her daughters, Celine Mehar and Anusha Mehar; her grandchildren, Jalen Mehar and Wyatt Lyons; her sister, Nicole Fromm, and Nicole’s daughters, Luna and Amalie, of Germany; her sister- and brother-in-law, Ruby and Brian Doddridge, and her nephew, Kevin Doddridge, of Canada; her beloved dog, Arthur; and many dear friends and extended family members. She was preceded in death by her parents, Werner Wolgast and Lillian Meier, and her in-laws, Dr. Beant Singh and Gursharan Mehar.

In keeping with Barbara’s wishes, a Celebration of Life will be held in mid-November. Family and friends are invited to gather, share memories, and honor the remarkable woman she was. Guests are encouraged to leave black behind and wear their finest colorful attire. Flowers, music, laughter, and dancing will be welcome—a celebration as vibrant as Barbara herself.

Quigley-Sullivan Funeral Home, of Cornwall-on-Hudson, is assisting the family with arrangements. Details of the Celebration of Life will be shared as they become available. 

To learn more, share memories, contribute to the family, or send flowers, please visit: www.everloved.com/life-of/barbara-mehar. Additional updates and information will be shared on Barbara Mehar’s Facebook page, when available.